How to Tell if Your Boyfriend or Girlfriend Has Cheated on You

What is it that separates the relationship between lovers and those between ordinary friends? Courtship or a romantic relationship is the friendship of higher-order where the two individuals start to draw energy from each other.

This is more than just friendship as you can have dozens of friends but ideally, you’d have one person whom you can refer to as your boyfriend or girlfriend.

When there is a breach of trust in this relationship, it can be very hard to handle. It drains you out emotionally and mentally. If you suspect being cheated, you can either fall into a state of depression or self-pity or try and seek revenge from your estranged partner. Neither of it is desirable as it snatches away your peace of mind.

However, there is no virtue in being cheated or keeping your eyes shut when sad things come to your notice. While you may have been noticing signs of cheating but confronting your partner with strong evidence is not desirable.

You may have spotted them with someone or noticing your relationship becoming cold. To claim that your boyfriend or girlfriend is cheating is a serious acquisition and it is important that you take your time and verify all the assumptions you have in mind before you actually get down to hammering out it with your partner.

Remember when you are to walk out of the relationship, better do it from a position of strength where you can throw the evidence on their face.

What to Do When You Suspect Your Partner to Be Cheating?

Is my boyfriend cheating on me? Life isn’t as good as it should be if this question is doing the rounds of your mind.

When you are suspecting your partner of cheating it is important that you get to know the truth. Your suspicion may be unwarranted and the seeds of mistrust may have been implanted in your mind by someone or an incident that might have triggered negative thoughts in your mind unnecessarily.

Irrespective of the reasons behind your suspicion you need to know the facts of the matter.

Thankfully we live in an era where it is possible for you to easily know whether your boyfriend or girlfriend has cheated on you.

Your partner’s smartphone is more than just communication, entertainment and gaming tool, it’s a window to their world and activities.

This will offer you information on everything they do – from where he or she goes to whom he or she talks to, you can find out almost everything about you’d like to know about your partner.

Just imagine if you can spy text messages on your partner’s cell phone or make use of a phone location tracker to know where exactly he or she is at the moment.

Does that sound straight out of the CIA playbook? You’d be surprised to know that technology has now made it possible for you to spy on any person and you’d be able to do it anonymously without your partner ever knowing it.

By checking on their cell phone text messages and tracking the location, you’d be able to confront your boyfriend or girlfriend with evidence that he or she cannot deny.

How to Do It?

To check cell phone text messages or know the location of your partner you need to be bold and use the rules from your lover’s playbook.

When your boyfriend or girlfriend is cheating on you, he/she is playing with your trust. It’s time for you to do the same and here’s how you can monitor text messages, track your partner’s location and get hold of all the information that you want –

  • Search for software or mobile app that allows you to check text messages without a phone and track the location of your partner. There are dozens of such apps available on the Internet. Look at the exact features they are offering and make sure you know how to use them.
  • Read reviews of the apps you have zeroed in on as there are apps that promise you many things but in the end, are unable to mirror your partner’s text messages on your phone or let you track their location. You may not have a big window of opportunity to spy on your partner and hence you need a tool that lets you gather the evidence at the very first attempt.
  • Next, you go to the most challenging task of the whole business where you will need to access your partner’s phone. You need to know their secret code or pattern lock to access their phone. In case your partner is using face recognition or fingerprint lock, you will have to coax them to offer you access to the phone. After gaining access you will need to download or sideload the application. Don’t worry as these apps can easily be hidden from your partner’s eyes and would immediately start to send vital information to you on your phone or web application.
  • Track your partner’s activity on a regular basis and scan through his/her messages and if he or she is cheating on your, strong evidence would soon land up on your hand.

Does It Require You to Spend Money?

Now that you know how easy it is to spy on your partner using these apps and software you might be wondering the financial implications of doing the same.

Let’s get it straight not every teenager or young adult does have the financial resources to spend money on spying on a partner. You’d better hire the services of a private detective for the same purpose as they bring in professional expertise into the job and there is no chance of your cheating partner ever knowing that they are being spied upon.

This brings us to the most important question – Can you spy on text messages for free?

The good news is ‘Yes’ and by opting for the right app or software you’d be able to spy on your partner without having to spend a dime. Most of these applications do offer you all their basic features for free though some of their advanced features may be hidden behind a paywall.

Unless your partner is a tech-geek or has enabled advanced security features on his or her phone the basic features on the spy app would reveal more than what you need to know about your partner and his/her activities and get to the bottom of the story.

Even those that charge you a subscription fee have kept their fee low to make it affordable.

To sum up, there is no virtue in being wrong in life. There is a lot you put into a relationship – your emotions, trust and your honour.

If your boyfriend or girlfriend has crossed the red line it is you who needs to call off the relationship and not be dumped by your partner who leaves you behind in an ocean of tears.

By calling if off on your own terms you will save yourself from the sense of helplessness and self-pity. Fortunately, technology these days allows you to know the truth and not be taken for a ride by your partner.

Use them and to prevent someone from playing with your emotions.